Horrible Blogger, indeed

I can't believe I've let a whole month go by (actually more) without leaving my mark on the Web. Not that anyone cares, or anything. A lot has happened. I happened to get a cold, twice, in the last month. I am enjoying the second helping now. I don't know how that occurs. I am taking vitamins and everything. Evalyn says it is because I don't eat enough kimchi. I would love to add it more regularly to my diet, but it's hard.

Jason's aunt in New York died of cancer a few weeks ago. I know he was glad to talk to her on the phone before she died. I wish we could have made a visit, too.

I think we are keeping little retard kitten, as much as would like to find him a home of his own. He is doing quite well, even after almost dying again after eating a brown widow spider. He's a great fit for our house. He loves to cuddle with you on the couch in the fleece. So sweet.

I went to see Sherlock Holmes yesterday. I thought it was quite good. I was a little nervous at first. The plot has a lot to do with black magic. But, of course, Holmes gets to the bottom of the mystery and unveils what really is happening. The main bad guy looked a lot like Andy Garcia. It will be interesting to see who they get for the sequel to be Moriarty.

I went to see Nathan in Savannah last month. It was a nice visit. The weather was next to perfect for wandering about the town. I was glad grandma was able to go. We got to be corny tourist and take the blue bus ride. Lady & Sons was a real treat. In fact, I'm craving ho' cakes right now. All hail to the great Paula Deen.

Speaking of large women who know their way around the kitchen, I went to see Julie & Julia. I was fond of the concept. Meryl Steep is always the best at whatever role she has. The task of cooking all of Julia's recipes and blogging about them was quite a feat. That's something Miss "Blog-once-a-month" won't be doing anytime soon.

Guilt for Making Others Feeling Guilty

Over the weekend, one of my 7 outside cats got under our Pacifica as Jason pulled out to go to the gym. Unforth, Jason hit him and the cat ran into the woods. Jason didn't think much of it, since the cat made a mad dash for the woods. He looked around for a while, then went to the gym as I napped. When he came home, he told me what happened. I got worried when this usually food- motivated cat didn't come home for dinner, breakfast the next day, or the following meal. By Sunday night, I knew something was extremely wrong.

I was very angry with Jason for not telling me right away when it happened. Even though we weren't sure of the cat's fate, I made him feel extremely bad for not telling me sooner.

By Monday, I decided to make some fliers to spread around the neighborhood. Shelly at work made me feel a little more hopeful telling me the story of running over her Sam with an SUV and the tire landing on top of him. She had actually gotten out of her car before realizing that her tire was right on top of her cat. He's like 20 years old now. So I felt that maybe Four Socks was still out there.

My hope was crushed last evening when I saw a freshly dug patch in my front yard with a rock over it. When I went inside, my fears were realized. Jason was so upset . he even bought a beautiful bouquet of lilies and yellow roses with a plastic sunny face to ease the pain. I was so upset that I ran into the shower and cried for 20 minutes.

I didn't want to make him feel worse than he already did, but I did. I know how much he loved that cat. I was just so upset. What can you do?

I feel a lot better about it today, but now Jason is still sad. I know how guilty he feels. Now I feel bad that I made it worse. I guess only time will ease the pain. He was really an awesome cat. He had such an attitude and cool swirls on the side of his body. NO one could replace Four Socks, or affectionately know as Fat A@%.

Death of a Legend

I just found out that Paul Newman passed away. I have always loved Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid. Love the salad dressing. He just seemed like an all over nice guy. I just attended a funeral for someone today that I had a conversation with just last week. Life is so quick and fleeting.

Peace out, Cool Hand Luke.

He will be sadly missed.

I found out yesterday that a beloved elder in my hall passed away early Monday morning from a massive heart attack. He was in his eighties. He was an elder who you loved to hear give a talk. He was so insightful and had a mind sharper than a tack. I learned something in every single one of his talks. He and his wife moved to our hall about a year and a half ago. I knew his health wasn't good, but he didn't let anything like bad health stop him. He was quite active and always had a twinkle in his eye. I used to joke, we all did, that he reminded us of Dr. Evil. (Unknowing to him, he really was dead on) He was so endearing. I am sad that I did not get to know him better as a person.



If it is any consolation, he died shortly after doing what he loved most, next to the truth.

I know he will be sadly missed by his family and the whole congregation. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.

Life can be so short and fleeting. Never take your loved ones for granted. Always hug them and tell them how much you care for them. You may never have the chance if you wait.

Sad news

Just got the news that legendary Pink Floyd member Richard Wright died today of a heart condition.

Vivian June 1932-2008

We'll see you in the new system Gram.

Sad news

Sorry it has been a few days. Jason and I had to make a sudden trip to Melbourne and Sebastian on Tuesday morning. His grandmother had a new pacemaker put in on Monday. That afternoon, she started bleeding internally. We were called early Tuesday morning and informed that her condition was grave. The blood issue did arise, but gladly, Gram stood her ground. She fell asleep in death at 11:56 on Tuesday night.
I was with the rest of the family in the room when she passed away. It was the first time I ever experienced that. It kind of freaked me out, but I was really there in support of the rest of the family.

Unfortunately, I didn't get to know her extremely well, but she was a funny lady. She was so thoughtful. She gave Jason and I our first gift after we got engaged.(A cookie press that I've never used, but will find a use for now) She gave Jason for the split pea soup. She was an awesome cook.

It was a sad and stressful time for the whole family. I feel bad for Jason's mom, who took care of her for the last 7 years. I know she will miss her deeply. Her passing caused a lot of confusion and stress for the whole family. Thankfully 2 brothers came over and really put things into perspective for us. I was so happy they came over.

Jason did so well keeping everyone informed and getting things done. It was such a difficult thing to do, but he did it well. I am so proud of him.

I got a chance to meet Jason's aunt Vivi. She is so cool. She is so different from Lynn. They are polar opposites. She did a lot to arrange things for Gram. I think her memorial will be either this weekend or next. I hope it's next weekend. I am just so tired.

I can't wait to see her in the new system.

Heath Ledger found dead

I find this news to be very sad and shocking. As most celebs go, he seemed very tame in comparison. But how come all actors or musicians always die in the buff? That always amazed me. Elvis, Marilyn Monroe, Jim Morrison, Michael Hutchins, Anna Nicole Smith, and now Heath Ledger. They were all naked when they were discovered dead. It makes it that more interesting. It really makes you wonder what they did right up to the few minutes before they died.....most likely it involved something sexual and a eightball, but that is just a guess..........

Anyway, it is just a sad waste of talent. My thoughts are with his family......John 5:28,29